FINDING VALUE: A Reforming Mean Girl’s Guide for Creating More Meaningful Connections

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“This is a compelling and practical guide for anyone looking to enhance their social lives and general well-being. Its blend of personal narrative, actionable advice, and philosophical insight makes for an enjoyable book…“
– Kirkus Reviews

Are you craving deeper, more meaningful relationships? Ready to move beyond surface-level interactions and connect in ways that truly matter?
In Finding Value, Dr. Christine Cooper shares her powerful journey from being a self-proclaimed “mean girl” to living a life grounded in authenticity, empathy, and connection. With personal stories, practical tools, and thoughtful guidance, she invites you to transform your relationships—starting from within.
Through relatable examples and proven strategies, you’ll learn how to:
– Build genuine connections that bring fulfillment and joy
– Understand and value others on a deeper level
– Set healthy boundaries while staying true to yourself
– Navigate disagreements with empathy and respect
– Read nonverbal cues and communicate with clarity
– Contribute confidently to meaningful conversations—even with differing opinions
Whether you’re seeking closer personal bonds, stronger professional relationships, or a clearer sense of self, Finding Value offers the insight and encouragement to help you get there.
Rediscover your worth. Reimagine your relationships. And start creating the connections you’ve been longing for.
Praise for Finding Value
Transformative and Insightful
“I thoroughly enjoyed this book and highly recommend it for its transformative and insightful content.”
★★★★★
Luwi Nyakansaila, Readers’ Favorite
Highly Motivating
“The narrative is good, and the reader will also appreciate the easy-to-understand language used, which makes the work accessible to all kinds of readers. This is a highly motivating read, and I look forward to reading something else by this talented author.”
★★★★★
Frank Mutuma, Readers’ Favorite
Highly Recommend
“I highly recommend this thoughtful self-help guide to all readers but especially to young women who are just learning to navigate the challenges of adult life to forge personal and professional connections that have true value.”
★★★★★
C.R. Hurst, Readers’ Favorite
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Writing & Interview Updates
Highlights
Learn more strategies for building better relationships – “Finding Value: A Reforming Mean Girl’s Guide for Creating More Meaningful Connections” now available.

Interview
Dr. Christine Cooper and James Avramenko speak about Rebuilding Connections After Mistakes on the Friendless podcast.
Author Blog
Head over to the blog page to learn more about the development process and other events.
Want to improve your connections?
Finding value in others can improve your relationships and improve your quality of life.
These tips and tricks for finding the value of others can help you create more meaningful connections, even with those that frustrate you.
Want to hear more about creating meaningful connections? Check out the latest interviews:
Friendless
with James Avramenko 
“Rebuilding Connections After Mistakes”
Apple Podcasts
Spotify
The Laura Jane Layton Show with Laura Jane Layton
“The Gift of Knowing Yourself, Strategies to Unlock Your Best Life”
Apple Podcasts
The Wealth Elevator with Lane Kawaoka
“Reforming Mean Girl”
YouTube
Additional Interviews
Choose to Live, Love & Grow with Matt Findora
“Finding Value in Others and Ourselves”
Apple Podcasts
Spotify
YouTube
Best D Life with Daniela Wolfe
“Building Bridges: The Essential Guide to Strengthening Your Relationships”
Apple Podcasts
Spotify
Kim Talks Resilience with Kim Hayden
”Emotional Intelligence: Navigating Difficult Conversations”
YouTube
A Better You Podcast with Anthony McFarland
YouTube
Be Heard: Empower Yourself with Mimi Tallo
YouTube
Download the Podcast Audio
Authority Magazine
Becoming Stress-Proof: Dr Christine Cooper On How To Reduce Or Eliminate Stress From Your Relationships An Interview With Savio Clemente
Be Heard: Empower Yourself with Mimi Tallo
YouTube
Download the Podcast Audio
HERspiration and Dr. Christine Cooper discussed ways to improve value within your relationships. 
YouTube
iHeartRadio
Big Impact Radio and Dr. Christine Cooper sat down for a chat about life and why finding value in others is important in our own lives.
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